Single in Debt will no longer be single. That’s right, I am getting married for the first time at the cusp of turning 39!
Not that I was someone who really wanted to get married and distressed over it. Maybe for that brief window in my early thirties when I wanted kids, something I have since gotten over. I never really considered having the traditional life of husband, dog, white picket fence and 2.5 kids and I still don’t. I just happened to get together with someone I am very compatible with and it worked. I am very happy to have a partner in life and I think I am adapting quite well. We still have things that take extra work, such as my allergy to communication. I lived on my own for so long, I forget to tell him things or I just race ahead without realizing its something that we need to discuss first. Luckily, he has been a good sport about it so far and I’m learning that what I do impacts someone else.
I am not changing the address of the blog. I realize I am not single anymore (or won’t be soon), however the debt in this relationship is brought in by a single person, me! So, I am thinking of adding to the title and suggestions are welcome. So far I have thought of one new name:
Single in Debt, Couple in Life
It maybe a little dorky. So help me out with a new name!